There Is No Accident In Getting Pregnant – Kenyan Singer Advises Single Mothers
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39-year-old Esther Akoth higher referred to as Akothee has schooled girls to not maintain males answerable for their failures.
Akothee who’s a well-known Kenyan philanthropist, songwriter, dancer and entrepreneur charged girls to wait till the appropriate man comes alongside earlier than getting pregnant.
Doing this she says will assist them keep away from ending up with deadbeat companions.
The founder and CEO of Akothee Safaris, a tour firm based mostly in Kenya, took to her Instagram and wrote:
“Never blame a man for ruining your life. Your life is in your hands and the power is in between your legs, engage your brain and disconnect your heart for now and think straight. A man can impregnate up to 100 women in a year, but 100 women can only get pregnant once a year! So as a woman, having a child is basically your choice, in this age and era, there is no accident in getting pregnant!”
‘The president of single mothers,’ as she prides herself went on to coach girls about single motherhood as she provides:
“If so, all slay queens including me, would be pregnant by now, just imagine if all the men I dated convinced me to have a child for them. After Oyoo I would end up with a whole nursery school…” she wrote.
The mom of 5 defined that girls ought to make investments to safe their youngsters’s future and keep away from the drama that comes with child daddies.
“If you need a youngster, then make investments first. I’ve no time to chase you round from one court docket to the opposite, from one other lawyer to a counsellor, it’s higher to inform you ‘no’ now than to chase you later.
“There is no baby mama who ever moves on as long as we have a child with you. Responsibilities never move on until the child attains an age where he can fend for himself. We just put on a strong face, but that thing hits badly below the belt.”
Recently, Akothee made it identified that she would really like a sixth youngster with no strings hooked up.
“I will also have a baby and I don’t want a commitment with anyone, I am not ready to settle down, I am still very young, but number six is a must. We the independent women, also have choices (follow me at your own risk). I am looking for baby daddy number six; we won’t date, just a baby, period. No strings attached.”